Monday, April 6, 2009

7 Things to Remember while Approaching Women.

Approaching women is a very important aspect in a man’s life. I sure don’t need to emphasize on the importance here of approaching women. The question here is, How to Approach Women?


Remember a situation where you were going to approach a girl, and before you could even get a single word out, she freaked out and simply rejected you?


If you inquire deep in to why women reject men, the answer is…because they see men as a threat and have trained themselves in saying “No” to strangers. It’s ugly to feel that she’s being picked up. Don’t make it “just another pick-up attempt”. She gets those twenty-five times a day.


Tip #1…Approach her in a NON-THREATENING manner that does not yell out your interest. DO NOT hesitate and DO NOT take too long. She can sense hesitation (which she could translate into you having some weird intention) and you waste time thinking, someone else will approach her. Most of the men are out there thinking of how to strike a conversation with 'her' and I want you to be “the guy” getting her phone number.


Tip#2…Think of ways to strike a conversation. Know before hand what you are going to say and how would that make her react. Remember you are the NON-THREATENING guy. The act of approaching women becomes hassle free if you have done your homework. Your pick-up line (if I may call it so) should be intelligent and should engage her into a conversation and not make her give you a nasty look or a fake smile. Something like nice shoe or could I buy you a drink does NOT categorize as intelligent. Don’t be bold and/or loud. Be gentle and a bit innocent. Women love guys who look & talk innocent and are beasts when unleashed.


Tip#3…Let her not see you charging towards her. It is important for her to feel comfortable and for that you need to be comfortable with approaching women. Imagine yourself at a bar and you see some random guy walking straight towards you, looking at you. Would you get nervous? Wouldn’t you start thinking of ways to defend yourself?


Tip#4…Are you scared of being rejected? I do not know of a man who has never got a “No” from a woman. It is okay for her to refuse your offer to a conversation. The Art of Approaching Women is needs to be practiced. The more you practice, the better you get. No one is stopping you from approaching women every time you get an opportunity. Go for it. Soon you will notice yourself mastering the art of approaching women.


Tip#5…Have the body language to attract women. Keep your body relaxed and your voice calm and yet commanding. You are not asking her for anything more than a conversation at this moment. Initially you might feel nervous. The best way to get rid of it is practice. Soon you will get the “been there, done that” attitude. Attracting hot women towards you is no big deal. They need to know you are not one of the desperate men who don’t care what her name is and all they want is sex. Be an Alfa male. This is very important to be successful with women.


Tip#6…Her eyes are NOT below her neck. Look into her eyes and have a mild yet true smile. DO NOT fake it up. She should not feel you are here to chat for sex.


Tip#7…No matter what you do, DO NOT make her feel you are looking for her approval. She will loose interest. Be the Alfa male and you will take her out the next time.

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