Monday, April 6, 2009

Engage her into your conversation.

Some pick up lines are just terrible.

For example how often have you heard bad pick up lines such as:

"Did it hurt? When you fell from heaven, did it hurt?"

"Do I know you from somewhere?"

"Did you wash your pants with windex? Because I can see myself in them."


Let's face it - if you use lines like these on a girl, she's not going to give you the time of day.


But because the bad pick up lines get so much attention, people think ALL pick up lines are like this.


However, this is not correct.


A good pick up line will ACTUALLY help you pick up a woman.


The true point in using pick up lines is to begin a conversation.

That is all.


You can work your magic to do what you need to get a date with her, a phone number and an emotional connection, once she begins talking to you.


If you cannot begin a conversation, you can do little else.


Because you shouldn't just be talking to a girl. You should be ENGAGING the girl. Pulling her into a conversation with you is the only sure-fire way to further your agenda.


And guess what? A good pick up line will do that!

Do you know that when most men meet women they are at a loss for words to begin talking to a woman? They try to think of something off the top of their head, while often missing the opportunity of meeting a nice woman, before they can think of something to say.


It is essential to have at least a couple of good working pick up lines, especially for those times when you are nervous and cannot think of anything original that helps you take action.


Keep in mind that women are wise; never use these types of pick up lines, since they get you nowhere at all.


"Don't I know you from somewhere?"


This is lame pick up line and women know it, this is not a clever pick up line and makes you look bad.


Other unimpressive pick up lines include complimenting a woman on her clothing, asking for directions and telling her she looks like a movie star.


Why is this?

Because these things do not ENGAGE the girl. Once she responds, there is nothing to keep her in the conversation.


Avoid pick up lines that have yes and no answers. Good pick up lines get a woman to think about her reply, while inducing an emotional reaction, which encourages her to continue talking with you.


How can you engage a woman in conversation with you?

Easy, ask her opinion about some issue, since each woman has her own opinion, she likes to share with other, especially when it concerns relationships.


So to give you an example, you could say something like: "Hey, can I get your opinion on something real quick? Do you think it's wierd for a woman to try and get pregnant because she wants her baby to be born under a certain astrological sign? I really want to hear a woman's perspective on this."


Then follow up with a short story of how a woman may want her and her children's zodiac sign to be compatible, so they interact well together throughout their lives.


These various types of subjects for conversation can be about:

1. Relationships 2. Astrology 3. Marriage 4. Pregnancy 5. Children


The number of ways you can go with this are endless. Some of my favorite follow ups are:

"Do you believe in astrology?" (this can lead into discussions of fate and destiny)

"What is your zodiac sign?" (This can lead to talking about your sign compatibility - as a general rule, no matter what your sign is - you are compatible!)

"Do you like kids? You seem like the nurturing type."

I could go on and on, but you get the idea.


The design of a good pick up line engages a woman into deep and interesting conversations that provide you with an opportunity to get to know one another as you become familiar with each other.

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